We've come to the sit-and-wait phase. A distinct advantage, we think, over the Rush-Right-In'ers and Roll-Right-Overs. We get to see the ever-changing patterns on the wall tell their seasonal stories, like "The One-Way Gravy Boat to Turkey." We are ever mindful of the lumps. Not so the Grab-and-Dashers who care more about second helpings than being of help. We wonder what it is they read on the wall, if anything at all.